Sunday, October 24, 2010

Why Can't I have an orgasm?

Yes its true. I have never experienced one. I am only 19, but most girls my age still have experienced it. Is there something wrong with me? Why is it so difficult for me to achieve this? My boyfriend and I have tried almost everything besides sex toys. Should we give that a try? Would that help with stimulation. I'm shy so normally I wouldnt ask such a question but I figure no one really knows me on here. Thanks for any help you can give me!!!Why Can't I have an orgasm?
don't worry. i bet most of the girls who told you they have had an orgasm were lying, because for women it takes practice to learn to have orgasms. there are many, many women who haven't experienced it EVER.
The best thing to do is masturbating - that way you will get to know your body, what is best for you and how does it work for you. you can do it with your fingers or with toys (i prefer Rabbit- nothing compares to it). do it alone so you can be relaxed and take your time.
stop stressin out, and relax already.
foreplay first, then if you feel a different sensation, keep going toward that sensation, work it, work it. work it, take ur time, you'll feel it coming in no time.
learn to find your own body and then you can tell him what pleases you
Don't worry about it. Females don't need to orgasm ; men do. Stop being selfish & focus on pleasing your man.

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